Side note: I found it funny that most of the songs on the list were written by adorably geeky guys (minus, of course, Robyn), so I included their pictures. Unsurprisingly, most of these dudes have also written some pretty excellent songs about being dumped too. Expect that list shortly.
Just Ain’t Gonna Work Out- Mayer Hawthorne
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I’m Leaving You Because I Don’t Love You- Jens Lekman
It's hard to stay mad at Jens Lekman, even when he's telling you that he doesn't love you. Not only does he compliment the girl he's leaving:
So you pick up your asthma inhaler
And put it against your lips
Oh those lips I've loved
That I was dreaming of
They're so red and soft
I'm so sorry I couldn't love you enough
And put it against your lips
Oh those lips I've loved
That I was dreaming of
They're so red and soft
I'm so sorry I couldn't love you enough
But he manages to enthuse the break up with his quirky humor:
But my excuses were babies
Of snow that i just could not hold
Of snow that i just could not hold
I’m Not the One - The Black Keys
It's not a Media blog list without the Black Keys, but singer/ guitarist Dan Auerbach has written several "I'm not that into you" songs, including "I'm Not the One," "10 A.M. Automatic" and possibly "Just Couldn't Tie Me Down" (though the lyrics to that song are pretty vague). Why does Auerbach have to fend off so many ladies? Well, he is a pretty amazing guitarist. Or maybe it's the Justin Bieber haircut (Auerbach wears it better). Granted, "I'm not the One" is more of a "you can do better" song than "I don't like you":
You think...
That I'm normal
All these years
I'm just trying to warn ya
No, it won't
It won't hurt me none
Cause' I'm not the one
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I Couldn’t Say it to Your Face- Arthur Russell
Arthur Russell's ode to cowards poses an interesting query: why waste your time actually breaking up with someone, when you can just leave and eventually they'll figure it out? It's probably not the nicest strategy, or something you would want to employ if you'd ever have to see the person again (since they probably won't be your biggest fan). Still, why deal with all those messy emotions when you can just be avoidant?:
It's my world
It's my song
Didn't ask you to sing along
In my arms, you girl
Won't be there to say I'm wrong
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It Ain’t Me, Babe- Bob Dylan
This song is a mixture of "your expectations for a relationship are too high" and "I don't care enough to meet them."
I’m not the one you need
You say you’re lookin’ for someone
Never weak but always strong
To protect you an’ defend you
Whether you are right or wrong
Someone to open each and every door
But it ain’t me, babe
No, no, no, it ain’t me, babe
It ain’t me you’re lookin’ for, babe
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Handle Me- Robyn
Pretty much any girl who has went to a bar, or even left her house, has had the experience of being hit on by a creep who won't take no for an answer. Here Robyn lets one such gentleman know that's she's not really interested in his offer:
Yeah, you make your big move and I see
You're not used to being rejected
Sure, you're making a call to your guy
And I see you're well connected
Yeah, judging from that line you just passed
You are well known and respected
Sure, would me and my girls come participate in something you directed?
Oh, let me tell you how it be
You won't get with this you see
Cause' you can't handle me
50 Ways to Leave Your Lover- Paul Simon
Like any Paul Simon song, it's not totally clear what this song is about. It could be a mistress urging the singer to leave his girlfriend or wife. Or it could be a friend or even the actual significant other urging him to make a decision. Either way, the song does capture how while leaving your lover may be easy logically, it can have a heavy emotional toll.
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I Can’t Touch You Anymore- Magnetic Fields
This song captures the relationship gray area where you may love someone, but you don't necessarily like the way they treat you. In this case, the singer seems put off by his lover's constant questioning of their relationship and admissions about previous love affairs:
I love you, I can't touch you anymore
You wanna tell me 50 ways you've left your lovers
You wanna tell me how you've loved 200 others
You're asking the wrong questions
You're opening the wrong doors
I love you, I can't touch you anymore
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There’s No Home for You Here- The White Stripes
This is certainly the least gentle song on the list. Unlike Mayer Hawthorne, Jack White isn't the least bit concerned about his ladyfriend's feelings. He just wants her to get out his house now, so he can get back to staring at himself in the mirror without her head being in the way:
There's no home for you here girl, go away
There's no home for you hereI'm only waiting for the proper time to tell you
That it's impossible to get along with you
It's hard to look you in the face when we are talking
So it helps to have a mirror in the room
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There's no home for you here girl, go away
There's no home for you hereI'm only waiting for the proper time to tell you
That it's impossible to get along with you
It's hard to look you in the face when we are talking
So it helps to have a mirror in the room
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Carry Me Ohio- Sun Kil Moon
In case the photo doesn't tip you off, Sun Kil Moon mastermind Mark Kozelek tends to make moody and melancholy music. So it's not surprising that this song is the saddest and most reflective of the bunch. This is more of a wistful look back at young love lost than a justification for leaving the relationship:
Graving dreams
A million miles ago you seem
The star that I just don't see
Anymore
Words long gone
Lost on journeys we walked on
Lost her voice is heard along the way
Sorry for
Never going by your door
Never feeling love like that
Anymore
Graving dreams
A million miles ago you seem
The star that I just don't see
Anymore
Words long gone
Lost on journeys we walked on
Lost her voice is heard along the way
Sorry for
Never going by your door
Never feeling love like that
Anymore